While Father’s Day and democracy in America may not share a direct historical connection, a broader perspective reveals meaningful intersections.
Father’s Day, officially recognized in the U.S. in 1972, celebrates paternal influence and family values—principles that have played a crucial role in American democracy. Both major political parties have invoked family values to shape their narratives, reinforcing their importance in civic life.
However, rather than focusing on turning family values into a political slogan this Father’s Day, let’s focus our attention on the fundamental principles that foster strong individuals and vibrant communities—values that transcend political affiliation and unite all Americans.
Fathers, as mentors and role models, have a unique opportunity to instill these ideals in their children. Some examples of a few values that fathers should pass on—not just on Father’s Day, but every day to their children and grandchildren are:
- Responsibility & Civic Duty – Just as families teach responsibility, democracy thrives on engaged citizens who vote, serve in public office, and contribute to their communities.
- Respect & Tolerance – Families encourage respect for different perspectives, a cornerstone of democracy that fosters civil discourse and compromise.
- Equality & Inclusion – A democratic society champions equal opportunity, much like families strive to treat members fairly, regardless of age, gender, or background.
- Education & Knowledge – Families prioritize learning, just as democracy depends on informed citizens making thoughtful decisions.
- Compassion & Social Support – Whether within families or through social policies, caring for the vulnerable reflects a commitment to collective well-being.
- Freedom & Independence – Healthy families nurture independence and personal growth, paralleling democracy’s emphasis on individual rights.
Fathers undeniably shape the values of future generations—both for better and worse—just as democratic institutions work to cultivate informed and engaged citizens. Let’s reflect today on how we can pass these values down to our children and grandchildren.
Beyond our households, we must champion democratic values in society as a whole. Without going down the road of divisive politics. Fathers can do so by:
- Leading by Example – Parents model civic responsibility through voting, discussing societal issues, and engaging in their communities.
- Encouraging Open Dialogue – A home that fosters respectful discussions prepares individuals for civil discourse in a democratic society.
- Community Involvement – Volunteering, organizing events, and supporting advocacy efforts reinforce the significance of civic engagement.
- Educating the Next Generation – Teaching history, government, and critical thinking cultivates informed citizens who value democracy.
- Supporting Inclusivity – Welcoming diversity in friendships, education, and cultural experiences promotes broader social inclusion.
- Advocating for Social Justice – Standing against discrimination and inequality contributes to a more equitable society.
- Practicing Empathy & Cooperation – Resolving conflicts through understanding and compromise mirrors democratic processes.
Many of our past Presidents, despite the demands of their office, have spoken about the profound responsibility of fatherhood. President Barack Obama reflected on this, saying:
"I'm inspired by the love people have for their children. And I'm inspired by my own children, how full they make my heart. They make me want to work to make the world a little bit better. And they make me want to be a better man."
Similarly, George W. Bush captured the essence of fatherhood with a simple yet powerful statement:
"I think the most important priority for a dad is to be a dad. In my case, I might have been slightly self-absorbed at times, but when I became a dad, I only had one real job, and that was to provide for these little girls."
So this Father’s Day, let’s celebrate—but also take a moment to reflect on how we can reinforce democratic ideals. Perhaps the greatest act of patriotism is to instill these values in our children and grandchildren, ensuring they carry forward the spirit of democracy in their own lives.
David Nevins is co-publisher of The Fulcrum and co-founder and board chairman of the Bridge Alliance Education Fund.
