Molineaux is co-publisher of The Fulcrum and president/CEO of the Bridge Alliance Education Fund.
Last week I wrote about the underlying assumptions of authoritarian scholarship (i.e. pro-democracy work) and bridging divides work. They are different – but it’s not a competition. They are different tools for different times. Bridging divides work is the tool to 1) increase defections from the authoritarian-leaning supporters and 2) help us self-govern once democracy is protected.
Citizens like us need relationships with our political opponents to remain human to one another. And in the bridging divides work, research supports connecting with an identity that is not political to build and maintain relationships. When we reach out as parents, pet owners, members of a faith community, etc., we will have more empathy and tolerance for our inevitable differences. And once we are connected, if we commit to stay in the relationship despite our politics, our bonds of trust and affection can deepen.
For marginalized communities or those who believe themselves to be victims of cultural changes, remaining in relationships despite differences is harder. Facing the complexities of America’s racist history and the ability of conflict profiteers to stoke our outrage, no one is immune from wanting to walk away from conflict. Walking away and “divorcing” each other will decrease the ability of our country to have any type of civil dialogue, to self-govern in today’s environment.
We need only look at our family and friends to feel the divisions that have deepened in our lives. For some, it’s a tension only felt at holidays. For others, these tensions have shattered our sense of belonging and inclusion. Yet some people find the tensions have clarified what is and is not acceptable and consequently have found a new sense of belonging. Or through judgment of others, some feel isolated and lonely. A lot of us are more lonely, even when we are with people. Where can we be ourselves and feel like we belong?
In short, we are a hot mess as a nation.
While this is not the first time our nation has seen these deep divisions, it is the first time for many of us. The first time in our lifetimes. We are in the midst of the uncomfortable part of the cycle of choosing our democratic republic over autocracy or tyranny. This happens roughly every 50-80 years. What will we choose this time?
Historically, the most divisive – and politically violent times– in the United States have been immediately preceding an expansion of rights to a new group of people. For example:
1776-1789 – A new country and a democratic republic, if we can keep it
The Revolutionary War broke our connection to the British monarchy and allowed for self-rule by the white men who owned property. This was enshrined in the U.S. Constitution and Bill of Rights ( amendments 1-10). It’s worth noting that the Bill of Rights is oriented as “freedom from government interference” rather than “government systems established to support freedom to pursue ambitions, happiness, etc.”
1850-1870 – Abolitionists vs. economic interests, a delayed fight for freedom for all men
Following the Civil War, and the assassination of President Abraham Lincoln, self-rule through voting was expanded to all men, regardless of race or ethnicity. This was enshrined in amendments 13-15. Voting and election rights were initially heralded as equality for formerly enslaved people during Reconstruction. Of note, the federal government formally abandoned Reconstruction following the 1876 election when multiple slates of electors were sent from Southern states, casting doubt on the winner of the presidential election. Ending Reconstruction was the compromise that allowed Rutherford B. Hayes to be sworn in as president in 1877.
1850-1920 – Women squeak through the vote after a century of effort
The suffrage movement had emerged alongside the abolitionist movement the previous century. It took another 60 years following the Civil War before white women had the right to vote. This right was enshrined in the 19th amendment in 1920. And Jim Crow flourished with the use of literacy and poll taxes as tools of voter suppression.
1954-1964 – Forty years of movement building realized
The Civil Rights Act equalized voting for all people over 21 through congressional legislation and allowed for federal enforcement of laws that states would not uphold. Scholars speculate that John F. Kennedy’s assassination galvanized the non-violent activists of the civil rights movement. As the nation mourned, President Lyndon B. Johnson pushed through the legislation as a tribute to Kennedy. The Constitution was again amended for the 24th time, prohibiting the use of poll taxes to limit voting. This formally ended the Jim Crow era. Although new forms of discrimination continue to proliferate.
1965-1971 – Old enough to go to war, old enough to vote
On the heels of the civil rights movement and the summer of love, and as the draft for Vietnam dragged on, young people lobbied and protested for the right to vote. They argued if they were old enough to serve in the military, they should be allowed to vote and have a voice on those choosing to send them to war. Political violence was waged when students were shot at Kent State and two more high-profile assassinations took place – Martin Luther King Jr. and Robert Kennedy in 1968. The 26th amendment was ratified in 1971, allowing all citizens aged 18 or older to vote.
2008-2028? – Culture wars, changing demographics and the balance of power
Americans are stoked by the conflict profiteers and some politicians who blatantly work to divide us. This leaves many Americans questioning the integrity of our elections, the motives of our fellow citizens, and believing conspiracy theories devoid of reality. Others see threats to our democracy and this fear of fascism fuels our work to protect and defend our nation. The media we consume adds to the divide and thus no one is immune to the divisive thinking that is inflicting our society. No. One. Let’s not be too full of ourselves to think we have immunity. I believe democracy is under threat. Is it, really? We’ll only know in retrospect if we are right. Most citizens believe themselves to be protecting our nation.
I share this historical perspective to provide comfort. This moment of increasing political violence is something our nation has seen before. And our ancestors have shown us the path forward using non-violent means and holding people accountable. It’s our turn to do so, now.
Next column: Quality relationships strengthen democracy.
Americans across the political spectrum have continued to ask about the late financier and convicted sex offender Jeffrey Epstein’s connections among the political elite. (Angela Weiss/AFP)
Democratic U.S. Senate candidate Graham Platner speaks to voters at a town hall at the Elks Lodge 188 on June 7, 2026, in Portland, Maine.
McConnell and Platner both feel entitled
The two men could not be more different. One, a Republican, octogenarian, seven-term Southern senator, the other a progressive, millennial Maine oysterman who’s never spent a day in elected office.
But Mitch McConnell, the senior senator from Kentucky who’s been MIA for the past few weeks and Graham Platner, the Maine Senate candidate who’s facing calls to drop out of his race against Sen. Susan Collins, apparently do have something in common: an outsized sense of entitlement.
McConnell, who is 84 and not running for reelection, has been hospitalized for three weeks, and yet we still don’t fully know what he was admitted for or what his condition is. Per CNN, “his office has not disclosed a medical reason for the hospitalization or provided specifics on his health status beyond saying last week that he ‘continues to improve’ and ‘is working closely with his staff on Kentucky and Senate matters.’ ”
While several legislators have said they’ve talked to him and insist he sounds strong, others have said they are completely in the dark. One MAGA influencer, Laura Loomer, posted ”High level source close to the White House tells me ‘Mitch McConnell is officially brain dead. He’s not coming back.’ ”
Meanwhile, up in Maine, Platner has been artfully dodging calls from his own party to drop out of his race after several allegations of misconduct from women, including a sexual assault allegation from a former girlfriend, came to light. While Platner, who has managed to survive a Nazi-tattoo scandal, a sexting scandal, and several old tweets scandals, denies the allegations, he has not quit.
High-profile Democrats including Sens. Bernie Sanders and Chuck Schumer, the latter of whom had unsuccessfully hand-selected Maine Gov. Janet Mills to face Collins instead of Platner, have urged Platner to drop out, while other Dems have accused him of trying to influence the picking of his replacement.
Maine Democratic Party Executive Director Devon Murphy-Anderson released a statement Tuesday, which said in part:
“Unfortunately, Graham Platner’s team has repeatedly reached out to us in an attempt to put their thumb on the scale of what this process looks like. We have repeatedly reiterated to Graham Platner’s team that they have no role in determining our next Democratic nominee for the U.S. Senate nor in determining what this process looks like.”
Both incidents show a deep lack of accountability to voters, who in one case deserve to know whether their senator is capable of performing his duties, and in another deserve a candidate who isn’t being accused of crimes, bigotry and deception.
The offensive and odious entitlement of both McConnell and Platner stands out not because it is particularly unique among today’s political class. Tom Kean, the New Jersey GOP congressman, missed more than 100 votes, only sharing after a three-month mystery absence that he was dealing with depression.
Former President Joe Biden’s Defense Secretary Lloyd Austin failed to disclose a hospitalization for prostate cancer surgery, flouting the established rules for Cabinet members and senior U.S. officials.
From Biden’s insistence on running for reelection despite his obvious cognitive and political weaknesses to Trump’s brazen flouting of laws and norms, few politicians seem to appreciate that their public service job comes with responsibilities to constituents, including transparency and honesty.
But both parties increasingly justify the chicanery, because the stakes of winning elections and keeping power are simply too high. But that’s no excuse. If we’ve learned anything over the past decade, it’s that character and accountability do, in fact, matter. And when we, the voters, stop caring about it, well, so do they.
S.E. Cupp is the host of "S.E. Cupp Unfiltered" on CNN.